Meaning of Success? 05

Success? Dream — Being a Photojournalist and Being a Pilot

Copyright © 2008, By Odell Sneeden Hathaway, III

Being a Photojournalist

When I graduated high school I had a vision for my life: I was going to be a photojournalist. I had spent two years shooting for the school newspaper and one year for the yearbook.

I loved taking pictures. I used to say there are two sides to every camera—the one I belong on, and the one everyone else belongs on. I just loved taking pictures.

One reason I loved photography is that my father is a photographer, and all my life I wanted to be like him.

I also loved being the person running around with the camera—and the respect that brought. Finally I was something more than a “retard.” Suddenly, I got some respect. Something I was doing was worthwhile.

In high school I finally started learning how to beat the world at its own game. Okay, world—you want me to be dyslexic, not able to read? I will still graduate with honors and a GPA above 3.0. I bent every rule. I earned A’s in Journalism and Yearbook without writing a word.

Somehow, when I got to college, I lost that—not the love of pictures, but the drive. It didn’t mean as much to me. Today I still love it when the muse grabs me and I go shooting, but it has never meant as much as it did in high school.

The things that pulled me toward being a photojournalist were:

  • Being creative.
  • Earning respect.
  • Making my own way and rules.
  • Wanting to be like my father.

Being a Pilot

I never accomplished my dream of being an astronaut, but I did become a pilot. I never planned on flying as a career; it was something I needed to do to be free—to respect myself, to show the world it was wrong about me. Even today, the fact that I am a pilot gives me pride. I managed to do more than most people.

Today I don’t fly—mostly because I realized I didn’t have the time or money to be truly good at something where not being good is a sure way to die. But according to the FAA, and according to me, I am a pilot.

  • Sense of pride and accomplishment.
  • Sense of control over my own destiny.
  • Showing everyone else that I am better than them.

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